tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post4255159739643696791..comments2023-10-17T11:01:08.069-05:00Comments on Pretending to be Crafty: Old men, yarn and loveLisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02558971728744688982noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-45735136803011464272010-11-16T09:32:31.059-06:002010-11-16T09:32:31.059-06:00Oh, no! How disappointing that this happened!
I w...Oh, no! How disappointing that this happened!<br /><br />I would quit and not tell. No real sense in telling her, I think.Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-12341132631802617432010-11-12T21:10:24.432-06:002010-11-12T21:10:24.432-06:00Sounds like we are all in agreement. Wouldn't ...Sounds like we are all in agreement. Wouldn't do any good at all to tell the wife. Only hurt her and embarrass you. It's always disappointing to be betrayed like that. He betrayed your trust and faith in him as a friend and a Christian. There's no way I could go back to work in that type of situation. I know it will be hard, maybe impossible, but try to forgive him and put it out of your mind. Dwelling on it will only cause your pain to continue. It's such a shame this had to happen. I'm sorry for your hurt.Belindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13077173669350770709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-52812878589810376482010-11-12T16:41:30.998-06:002010-11-12T16:41:30.998-06:00Here on the Over 40 Blog hop and I'm so glad I...Here on the Over 40 Blog hop and I'm so glad I found you:) Hope you'll stop by and read my post and comment!<br />God Bless,<br />MichelleAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04707041643658095133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-7350986032824896192010-11-12T15:24:46.251-06:002010-11-12T15:24:46.251-06:00Wow! I think I would have handled it the same way...Wow! I think I would have handled it the same way. I understand quitting because that kind of statement makes for a very uncomfortable work place.<br /><br />I don't see any reason to tell his wife. Maybe if she asks, just tell her something was said that makes you not comfortable working there anymore, but it's not her fault.<br /><br />As crazy as this is, good for him for still being able to do that at his age!Evonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18053569885496919527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-61829160391352327112010-11-12T15:00:41.914-06:002010-11-12T15:00:41.914-06:00Wow. This is utterly amazing. How disappointing ...Wow. This is utterly amazing. How disappointing that he let you down and betrayed you AND his wife in this manner. How sad. I can imagine how upset and conflicted you are. I agree that it's probably not a good idea to tell her. After 70 years, is it worth it to let her know what her husband is up to? Not really. <br /><br />Good luck. *hug* Hopefully the next woman who works for them also has principles. <br /><br />I'm following you!<br />Kristin :)<br /><a href="http://www.keenlykristin.com/" rel="nofollow">Keenly Kristin</a>Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17379262211749306591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-37044640772899512762010-11-12T08:50:30.729-06:002010-11-12T08:50:30.729-06:00I don't think I would say anything to her eith...I don't think I would say anything to her either. I'm very sorry that he put you in this position. I really hate it when things like this happen. I don't know what else you could possibly do besides quit. <br /><br />I am a new follower from Over 40! You can find me here: http://emptynest1.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Hope your weekend is great!Empty Nesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14060983954463697344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-30371003022627708702010-11-12T08:47:55.918-06:002010-11-12T08:47:55.918-06:00I agree with everyone else. I would just quit and...I agree with everyone else. I would just quit and not tell.detweilermomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00991274438604846464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-91246948752298392552010-11-12T07:23:00.412-06:002010-11-12T07:23:00.412-06:00I'm with the others...don't say anything. ...I'm with the others...don't say anything. I hate that he put you in that situation. ((HUGS))Kmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05008496338777404036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-42204990528258412672010-11-12T07:17:24.420-06:002010-11-12T07:17:24.420-06:00I caught my breath reading that as well.
Wow.
I ...I caught my breath reading that as well.<br /><br />Wow.<br /><br />I kind of feel bad for the old man. He probably hasn't gotten any in years. And maybe that is something that him and his wife need to discuss, but that doesn't mean he should be asking other women for "it"<br /><br />((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-54802708282460518992010-11-11T21:22:33.075-06:002010-11-11T21:22:33.075-06:00I swear I almost stopped breathing when I read thi...I swear I almost stopped breathing when I read this. Considering the age of this man and his wife, I would just let it go and not say anything to her. I would have to quit though because I would not feel comfortable in the house anymore. All I could think of was what a dirty old man and shame on him. So sorry that you will be losing her as a friend. :0( Ok, I know that you are upset about all of this, but I have to put a smile on your face. "I would have looked at the old guy and said "pffft honey you can't afford or handle me!"Rhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04535788889874251636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-58500984344764408422010-11-11T21:02:54.889-06:002010-11-11T21:02:54.889-06:00Wow... That is something else.
I don't thi...Wow... That is something else. <br /><br />I don't think I would say anything to her if it was me. Now if they were younger (WAY younger), I would say something in a heartbeat. <br /><br />I am sorry that this happened to you. I don't blame you for quitting. Just tell her that your doctor told you that you need to cut back on working. She will more than likely understand.<br /><br />*hugs*Stashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12789106734518880998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3936649678271733503.post-1526049017712699722010-11-11T20:57:53.048-06:002010-11-11T20:57:53.048-06:00I think I would be handling it the same way you ar...I think I would be handling it the same way you are. Don't let this drag on either. Let them know now, you have to quit.Okahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08963135885811964745noreply@blogger.com